Because I find it a richer way to engage with the erotic and sexual in us and in our romantic relationships. Yes, we can ask someone to have sex with us and they may say yes or no but this to me is a narrow conversation; a request misses the liveliness, excitement and anticipation that are part of flirting, being curious, imaginative and express what we like or dislike and share fantasies.
Seduction goes beyond consent and refusal, it invites us to be playful, a deep emotion that is often neglected in adulthood.
Seduction invites both (or more) partners to become active participants, free to accept or reject part or all of the invitation and to give way to desire.
Seduction is a reminder that sex and lovemaking can be fun, are about connection, fulfilment, growth and self-enhancement.
Enjoy.
